Sunday, July 17, 2005

When good inlaws go bad...part one.

Props to my friend sierrabella for this idea. I thought I'd compile a running list of things said by inlaws. If any of you cannot post such a list due to the possibility that those very inlaws will read your blog, you are welcome to add it to the comments here.

1. "Oh, the baby is so sweet! And small!! But the extra weight looks good on you."

2. At the end of a meal in the early days of our marriage: "Don't be ridiculous! You don't need a dishwasher. I'll do these myself if it's too hard for you."

3. When visiting our first home shortly after we had purchased it: "Well! It's a quaint little home, but you really don't have the flare, do you."

4. Soon after my 30th birthday: "This haircut is so much better than that other one. It made you look old."

5. At 9:30pm during a visit: "What do you mean they don't need ice cream this late? Of course they do!" Followed promptly by the serving of same.


Mostly I love them and they love me, but every now and then you just gotta say WTF?!

4 Comments:

At 6:35 AM, Blogger Squirl said...

Wow, some pretty rude and thoughtless comments there. I'm either blessed or I have a way to turn off the memories of those kinds of comments. I'm glad they're good to you most of the time.

 
At 8:31 AM, Anonymous Anonymous said...

Those are rude and thoughtless. I'm glad you take in with a grain of salt, and move on.

 
At 10:29 AM, Blogger SierraBella said...

Lawbrat has a good point...
However I'm putting together a voodoo doll, and looking for some pins.

 
At 12:34 PM, Blogger eclectic said...

squirl, lawbrat and sierrabella: Yeah, I guess those comments could be taken as rude, but really, they're just thoughtless ones. She means well, honest! But it's nice to know y'all got my back!!

#1 was actually spoken by my father-in-law (only a man could fumble that topic so badly, eh?) My MIL actually loves me to pieces -- and I her -- but she's very direct and often speaks her mind before the brain censor kicks in and shows her how any given comment could be taken. Most often she realizes how it sounded about a milisecond after it escapes her mouth, and then it can be quite comical watching her backpedal. Usually I let her off the hook right away, but.....not always! *wink*

 

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